I just finished the American Cancer Society’s Making Strides Against Breast Cancer walk in Boston (a 6 mile walk to raise money & support for breast cancer research, early detection, and survivor support programs), which this year I dedicated to my “aunty” Daisy who is a survivor. I’ve heard that cancer changes you, but if she didn’t tell you she had cancer you wouldn’t even know it. She’s the same bubbly, humorous, and loving person I’ve grown to love all these years. There’s nothing like beating cancer to make you feel like you’ve been given a new life, another chance.
And while I’ve not had to deal with cancer, birthdays give me the same feeling of starting anew (and it makes me wonder if this is why the American Cancer Society is now the sponsor of birthdays…). I recently celebrated mine and I usually treat mine as a new year in addition to a birthday. I reflect on how my life was the year before, and appreciate the blessings I have now.
Last year I created a list of things I wanted to do before my next birthday, and this year the list continues, with an added emphasis in giving more to others. Prior to beginning law school, I worked for a company that allowed me to do a lot of volunteer work, and I fear that due to my workload I won’t be able to volunteer as much as I used to. Donating your time to help others is a great way to celebrate life. It reinforces our purpose, and reminds us that we all need each other. I hope others treat their birthdays as new years in which they can make a difference in the lives of others as well as their own. Forget what happened before, and treat today as if you’ve been given a new life. And who knows, maybe you’ll help to sponsor some birthdays, too!
